I guess a lot of persons are wondering why am i writing this type of article and i also believe that a lot of things are going through your mind , just don’t think too much the writer is still surprise about it. Before i continue i want to tell all my readers thank you and from the bottom of my heart and I LOVE YOU.
Before i go into the important or the benifit of breakup, let know what break up his. BREAKUP is the separation of someting into several pieces or sections. the few necessity of breakup are;
- VALUE
Although breakup is very hurtful, it do seems since you are losing your mind, we also do feel we can’t do without our partners. Here comes were we start to value ourselves and start knowing our worth. We began to know ourselves more and start working on how to improve our value, thereby having more self love. We may have the feeling of rejection but the truth is that anyone who is going to stay will stay no matter what our behavior may seems sometimes. So lets stop begging anyone to stay in our life, and also we should stop having this mindset of without our partners we aren’t nothing, lets us remove this words from our head ” without you i can’t survive” the truth when we came to this world we came alone therefore we don’t need anyone to survive in this world, all we need is us.
- CHECKMATE
this is actually the most difficult apart were its mostly seen by few persons during breakups. it’s really not our fault due to how we have been so mentally destabilize due to heartbreak. Most persons see checkmate as a counter attack, but i see it as check and maintain ourselves. During break most of us go through a lot of pains and we start thinking of what we did wrong, why is everyone treating us as if we are worthless. Here also comes were we start checking ourselves and see who is at fault, if we are the one or if it’s our partners. Am not going to ask anyone not to do anything if u aren’t the one who is at fault, but lets look forward seeing a better and beautiful relationship, since we aren’t at fault therefore our partners never knew our values that’s the reasons they treated us as trash. lets work on ourselves thereby having more value and more worth so our future partners won’t see us as nothing instead they we see us as values and be grateful they met us in their journey of life.
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birdomo 